Your love. Your way. Your day.

About Selena

Hi! I’m Selena Costantino Miller, born in Scotland and raised in Jersey City and the Jersey Shore. Now living in the donut hole Hightstown, New Jersey. After over a decade together, I am a newlywed married to the love of my life, Benjamin. We have a beautiful, chaotic, blended family of six, ranging in age from 20 to 31, and we’re the proud and doting grandparents of the amazing Dominic.

My journey into officiating began when I had the honor of creating a ceremony for my best friend Toni and her now husband Chris. You see, I introduced them 20 years ago. So, I called dibs on making it official.

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That moment lit a spark in me—and I’ve never looked back. From that day on, I knew I wanted to help couples celebrate their love in the most personal, heartfelt way possible.

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That’s why my motto is: 

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Your love. Your way. Your day.

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It’s more than a tagline—it’s the heart of everything I do. I believe every couple deserves a ceremony that’s authentically them. I’ll bring my creativity and passion for human connection to the table, but at the end of the day, it’s your story I want to tell. I’ll get to know your “why,” and I’ll share that with your guests on the most magical day of your life.

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A little more about me:

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When I’m not officiating weddings, I travel for a living as a marketing field manager (yes, the wanderlust is real!). I am also a qualified flight attendant as per the FAA. My hobbies include thrifting, redecorating, soaking up the beach, and exploring new places. I’m also a big believer in Sunday dinners with my family—they’re my favorite kind of magic.